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Stronger Together

I don’t know about you but the state of our nation’s continues to drain my emotional well; the well where my strength and conviction resides. So far the only way I have found to replenish that well is to get involved.

The first time this happened is when I was asked to lead our local Sister March on January 21st 2017 and was overwhelmed by the turn-out. We had 322 people come out to support Human Rights issues in our little town of Soldotna. Immediately after that was an amazing community building event at the Soldotna Library. There was music and special speakers but what really filled me with hope was the vision board. Each participant was asked to put one positive vision they had for our community’s future on the vision board. These community goals were then complied into Five action groups:

  1. Women’s Issues/Healthcare
  2. Clean Air/Water/Climate
  3. Alaska Budget/Education
  4. Community Dialogue
  5. Elections

Now these smaller groups will get together and come up with actionable steps to achieve their specific community goal. I am so looking forward to participating with these groups and see how this momentum continues to evolve in our community.

My well was overflowing after this inspiring event! Then President Trump started signing executive orders that put the health of women all around the world in jeopardy and blatantly discriminated against Muslim refugees and immigrants. So far the only “draining” that I could see Trump doing was my emotional well once again.

Thankfully the Women’s March of Washington group had more for us to do, 10 action items in 100 days, the first to be sending postcards to our elected officials. Last Frontier Freethinkers hosted a postcard writing event at Odie’s Deli and again I was overwhelmed by the attendance and all the thoughtful concerns that everyone passionately put pen to paper. At one point everyone in the restaurant was writing on a postcard, even those who originally came just to have lunch. My well was full again.

As we all struggled to frantically call and email our elected officials in the following week, to stop the confirmation of Betsy DeVos for Education Secretary, I felt my well begin to drain again when my very own representative, who had been overwhelmed by all the comments of opposition  she was getting from her constituents, was the swing vote to allow DeVos to move out of committee and head to a vote on the senate floor for which she will almost certainly be confirmed. This will be a devastating blow to our public school system.

Yesterday I went to watch a comedian economist tell political jokes and talk about Climate Change. Not just talk about it but actually provide actionable solutions that we all could take part in thanks to the work of Citizen’s Climate Lobby. I had not laughed that hard in a long time and for the first time had a glimmer of hope that we could actually do something tangible to mitigate the effects of climate change and move towards a more sustainable and livable future. I also noticed that as I go to all these events I am seeing a lot of the same faces and realizing that these are my people. These are the people who will change the world. My well was overflowing once again.

So that is it! This is how I am staying sane during this very chaotic time in American History. I am engaging in the resistance movement. I am actively participating and contributing to that movement. I am letting those that are standing next to me fill my emotional well with hope and inspiration for a brighter future as I see our numbers grow and our passion build. They are keeping me strong and committed to the cause. I hope I am doing the same for them. It is funny that Hillary Clinton’s Campaign promise was Stronger Together because that has never been truer for me than it is today.

If you are really struggling with the unthinkable things that are going on in this country, if you are in despair, and your emotional well is bone dry. Join Us! I promise you it will help. There is sure to be continued horrors as we move through these next for years, there will be  set backs, and we won’t win every battle. But we will win the war…

If we refuse to let them break our spirit,

If we refuse to back down,

If we refuse to be quiet,

We are Many Voices and we are Stronger Together!

The Walking Dead

The Walking Dead - Season 2, Episode 1 - Photo Credit: Gene Page/AMC - DSC_9915crgn_R_Ph Gene Page

I am a big fan of The Walking Dead. Not because of the imaginative and entertaining ways they come up with to kill zombies but because of the very real moral issues they have to deal with on a daily basis to survive. The main group meets lots of new people as they forage for food and shelter; lots of “strangers”. In a world like that, strangers are the great unknown and we all know how humanity fears the unknown. Is the stranger friendly or will he try to take what little we have, and will he try to kill us to get it? Every new person is a potential threat. So here in lies the dilemma… when the world is falling apart and all resources are scarce is it ok to consider someone a threat before they have proven that they actually are and act accordingly; which could include killing them before they have a chance to kill you? From strictly a survival stand point the answer is yes but you see humans have evolved beyond just “being”. Life is not just about being alive but how we go about living. Since man has been able to reason and ponder his existence, it has no longer been enough to just be alive; our lives actually have to stand for something. They have to have meaning. This leads us to the questions… is life really worth living in a constant state of fear, suspicion, and suffering? What value does a human life have if it is just mindlessly surviving long enough to reproduce? Is there a grander ideal that even in the direst of circumstances we should be trying to attain?

The characters in The Walking Dead all have asked themselves these questions. Some have come to the conclusion that they will do whatever it takes to protect themselves and the others they know and care about. They are unwilling to risk accepting any newcomers; other’s feel that every new person deserves a chance to prove themselves and is willing to take the risk for the greater good. Because once you get to know someone they are no longer a stranger and most often we come to care about the people we know.

This parallels very well with the current Syrian Refugee debate that is going on in this country. There is a large group of people that think we should close our borders to these people (strangers) in need in the off chance that a dangerous terrorist might slip through among them. Humanists and other empathetic Americans disagree with letting fear overrule compassion. Some of us do not want to just survive but instead want the entire human race to thrive together. Empathy has evolved in humans specifically for this purpose. It has been genetically selected because humans not only survive when they cooperate and care for each other but we reach our full potential to flourish as a species with less suffering.

I am so glad that there are people out there like Brandon Stanton; he is using his Humans of New York blog to tell the stories of Syrian Refugee families. It is much harder to be callous when you “know” who they really are. A stranger is just an unfamiliar entity but once we learn their story they become familiar and some become so close that they become family. When will we learn that we are all part of the human family?

Religion has tried to impart values but religion is divisive and separates the human family into groups. Dogma has made it very clear that thou shall not kill those within your ideological group but all other groups are fair game. Moral issues are decided very differently under the guise of dogmatic preference. The same goes for nationalism. We must help those from our same country but children, families, people outside our country can perish. But these are all labels we have given each other; once those labels are removed we are all the same. It is only our individual way of thinking that sets us apart, not where we live or what god we worship. Some choose fear and in honor of Star Wars day a quote from Yoda… “Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.”

Instead what does compassion look like in The Walking Dead world? Do people still die? Of course they do; that is always inevitable. Instead it is how they live that really matters. Do they help everyone in need? Even if helping them might put them in a dangerous situation? Even if some are making poor decisions that put the rest of them in danger? Do they exile those people knowing that if they survive and hook up with other people, they may come back to try and take what they have? I’m still working out my own answers to those questions but there is a very interesting character named Morgan that has vowed not to kill any living person because “all life is precious”. Even if they are attacking him, his goal is to subdue and try to reason with them instead of kill them. He believes his life only has value if he values the lives of others. Otherwise he is no different than the “Walking Dead”.

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